Seduction is my lifestyle, not my priority


seduction lifestyle not pri

This is by no means a retirement post.  I love studying anything and everything about seduction at my own leisure. I don’t do it for the money or the fame, I do it for the love of the game.

New Move

Having just moved from California back to Texas. I have been busy adjusting to my current lifestyle of working the family business and spending time with family. I think about seduction everyday, traveling the world and participating in debauchery is great fun. Yet in my journey I have learned that Money ,Hoes and Friends come and go. The same guys that where screaming bros before hoes, will be the first guys to wife up. What do you have to show for when the party is over?

This is by no means a retirement post.  I love studying anything and everything about seduction at my own leisure. I don’t do it for the money or the fame, I do it for the love of the game.

That’s just the thing, If I want to make money, I have to focus on making money. If I want to spend time with family then I will further push chasing tail down the totem pole of priorities. In the end it’s about balance but being that I have only been home a handful of times in the last 10 years, it’s time for the pendulum to swing the other way.

I got love for the game but I’m not in love with all of it.

A look at the seduction community.

The other day a guy online asked a question. I tried to help him and he attacked me? I’m not crying that a key board jockey hurt me. It just made me reevaluate my time. Wasting precious time and mental bandwidth on ungrateful ass muthafuckas.

Hard science vs Soft science

I came across this youtube video of Kinobody vs Vegan Gains. I’m not here to defend Kinobody or Vegan Gains. The point is that they both have some good points backed by science. In the fitness industry there is a lot of different philosophies and ideologies of what is right and wrong. Yet everyone can agree that Protein and carbohydrates both contain 4 calories per gram, while fat provides 9 calories per gram. This fundamental truth provides a base in which fitness enthusiasts can agree and build upon.

In the seduction industry, success is subjective, the philosophies and ideologies of seduction are heavily influenced by the perspective of the practitioner.

When I ask the seduction community to define the word “seduction”. I get conflicting definitions.

When I ask, what makes someone one an “MPUA” or a competent dating coach. No one can give me a straight answer. The reality is that it is subjective. (marketing)

Personally I think seduction is an art, not an exact science and that is the bases of my point. If hard science can’t agree (fitness industry) how will the seduction community ever agree?

I wonder if people will ever agree on somethings and get along.

I wonder if it’s really about “self-improvement” rather than a pissing contest.

I wonder if the main objective is to bed beautiful women rather than to draw attention and say “look at me”.

Combine that with all the pseudo science and magical techniques, nobody outside the “community” can take “pick up” seriously, in it’s current state of primordial soupness.

Leaders in the fitness industry will train clients by their own philosophies but will at least agree on fundamental fitness truths.

Leaders in the seduction industry will train clients by their own philosophies, while repackaging, rewording and redefining buzzwords and keywords. With an “I’m better than so and so” mentality instead of giving credit where credit is due.

If hard science can’t agree then soft science will never agree.

More ROI on other projects.

With my current goal of making more money, I started uploading more YouTube videos on the subject of uber and lyft. The YouTube channel makes me WAY more money than blogging does. I will continue to blog but YouTube and other money endeavors will take priority over the blog.

Seduction is a passion project not my priority.

“May the venusian arts enrich your life, not define it.” – Mystery


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Josh Bar is a Beer Binging Basketball Blogger who likes to travel the world and Bang Bitches