“Don’t attempt to manipulate women. Don’t allow women to manipulate you. Don’t allow women to waste your time… Be CONFIDENT. Be FEARLESS. Be STRAIGHTFORWARD. Get ready for the freedom of MODE ONE.”
I wish I would have found it earlier in my seduction career. A long time ago, surfing through the web, I saw a blogger write a book review on MODE ONE. I made a mental note to check it out later. Forgetting to do so, I never did.
Fast forward to 2016. Alan Currie was a guest on the modern gentleman blog talk radio show.
Currie went on to tell a story of him getting a blow job at the supermarket from a woman he had just met within five minutes ! I have been a fan ever since.
After reading the book and listening to Currie’s blog talk radio show upfront and straight forward . I can see how such a thing is possible. Why? Because Mode one cuts through all the bullshit.
Incorporating the MODE ONE philosophy I will say that it has made more assertive in my interactions with women. The two elements of mode one is strong behavior and effective behavior. As I adjust my game to the philosophy of mode one I feel stronger and better about myself. Less games, less manipulating, less wasted time. More authenticity.
What I also love about MODE ONE is that it such a refreshing slap to the face to all the feel good bullshit advice found in dating websites and books. Most notably to me is Mystery’s, Mystery Method where Mystery advocates that one should not have sex with a woman within seven hours of meeting her and here is Mr. Currie getting a blow job from a woman he met five minutes ago.
Interesting contrast in styles and delivery to say the least.
This is not to say invalid MM as I did learn a lot from the book and still continue to use some of its concepts, I use example to show the sharp contrast in styles Mode One delivers to it’s readers in comparison to all the fluff found online. MODE ONE is not a long complex process or read. Simply put it’s about about being upfront and straight forward. Of course that is easier said than done.
THE FOUR MODES
The foundation of MODE ONE is Alan Roger Currie explaining the four modes of behavior men typically have with women.
Behavior that is strong AND effective; This is representative of MODE ONE BEHAVIOR.
Behavior that is weak, BUT effective; This is representative of MODE TWO BEHAVIOR.
Behavior that is weak AND ineffective; This is representative of MODE THREE BEHAVIOR.
Behavior that is strong, BUT ineffective; This is representative of MODE FOUR BEHAVIOR.”
Quotes from the book
“The desire to be REAL outweighed my desire to maintain an “innocent,” “wholesome,” and/or “well-mannered” image.”
“Is it to your long-term detriment to interact with women in a phony, ineffective manner, while attempting to “hide” your true desires, interests, and intentions from them? MOST DEFINITELY.”
“When you exhibit strong behavior, it is virtually impossible for you to be easily manipulated or taken advantage of.”
“ANYTIME YOU PLACE MORE VALUE AND SIGNIFICANCE ON THE ATTENTION and COMPANIONSHIP OF A WOMAN, THAN YOU DO YOUR OWN, YOUR BEHAVIOR IS GOING TO BE WEAK.”
“NO WOMAN’S TIME, ATTENTION, OR COMPANIONSHIP IS MORE VALUABLE THAN YOUR OWN”
The only criticism I can give the book is that I don’t think a rookie can execute the philosophy of mode one behavior. While this is not the books fault, it takes someone with a high level of confidence (or a pair of balls) to be upfront and straight forward. Most men who are in the beginning stages of the self help dating market genre are too shy to introduce themselves to women much less tell them what they are really thinking.
Other than that I would have liked to see some example conversations Alan Roger Currie has had with women. ( I really want to know what he told the lady in the supermarket) I think he gives example conversation in his other books.
Which are on my to do read list.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to
Stop the manipulation.
Quit wasting time.
Be more Confident when interacting with both men and women.
MODE ONE should be a staple in any man library .
Let women know what you’re REALLY thinking
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